Tuesday, January 26, 2021

Listen Up

 

Gut Knowledge

“What you know in your head will not sustain you in moments of crisis…confidence comes from body awareness, knowing what you feel in the moment.”

Marion Woodman

          We put a lot of stock in our rational minds. There is nothing wrong with that. It’s gotten us past the age of putting leeches on people for their health, to the age of stem cell therapies. I have great respect and more than a little awe for scientists who uncover the intricacies of creation. But there is also another way of knowing that should not be discounted as often as it is. That is the body’s wisdom, the body’s information system. What is often referred to as “gut knowledge."

          Consider this: everything in your body is encapsulated in fascia. Except for nerve cells in the central nervous system, everything is covered in fascia, which forms one continuous inner skin. Every organ, every muscle, every cell in the body is held in place, suspended, and encapsulated in fascia. And fascia is composed of collagen fibers which have a gel-sol consistency. They become gel-like when compressed and solid when not, and they are crystalline in structure. Like the crystals in a radio, the cells in your body are in constant communication with each other without going through the brain. In other words, we have an entire communication system throughout our bodies in addition to the one seated inside our skulls. So, when you feel something tighten in your mid-section or you suddenly flush and the hackles on the back of your neck stand up, that should not be ignored. Your body is telling you something. We have a felt sense which the rational mind does not always understand, but which is equally as valid as our thinking, talking brain.

          In moments of crisis, we can trust this body-knowing more than our deciphering brains because it is faster and more specific. It may take a few moments for the brain to figure out what is happening and whether it is a threat. But not so our bodies. If you have a sense that something is wrong, that what you are hearing or seeing does not sound or look right, pay attention. If you feel drawn to someone, if you hear yourself sigh as though your body is relaxing, trust that. If there is simply an uncomfortable feeling that something doesn’t add up, listen to that. To be sure, evaluate it with your thinking brain, but also be on alert for spin-doctoring. The brain likes to play tricks on us—to pull out all those fancy defense mechanisms to get something it wants even when everything in the body is saying no, no, no! Repression, projection, displacement, rationalization, compartmentalization, intellectualizing, and my favorite, denial, will lead you down a twisted path—take my word for it. I’ve sampled all of them.

          You have a good brain. It can hold a lot of knowledge and even wisdom, but always listen to your feelings too. They are important because they are connected to your soul.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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