Friday, March 1, 2019

Both a Blessing and a Curse


Curiosity

When you're curious, you find a lot of interesting things to do.”
Walt Disney

Do you have a curious mind? I have decided that being naturally curious is equal parts blessing and curse. It drives you, keeps you seeking, and trying, and experimenting, and asking questions. You learn a lot—most of it correct. As children, we are both curious and unafraid. We delve into everything, stick our fingers into anything, and taste and smell and pull apart whatever our hands can find. It's how we learn, and if we aren't allowed to do this, we don't learn. Having a curious mind and being encouraged to experiment is crucial to building and augmenting brain pathways. When we aren't allowed to do that—because we might get dirty, or we might do something that has the potential to harm us—we may be clean and safe, but we are cutting off the possibility for experiential learning. We are limiting our access to first-hand knowledge.

Children ask a billion questions. Why, what, who, where, how? They expect answers, and they don't stop asking questions even when they get answers. Active learning can drive their adults crazy, but young children are in the most active stage of brain development, and it's their job to ask questions. Some of us never lose that level of curiosity. We just keep asking questions, experimenting, getting dirty and doing potentially risky things. We tend to ask personal questions, and probe other people for clues. Not surprisingly, they may see this as intrusive, invasive, none of our business—and often, they are right. It's good to learn what is and what isn't an acceptable question—especially with someone you don't know very well.

Curiosity is the ground floor of both science and creativity. It is what every discovery in the world has been produced by. Having a curious mind is necessary to make something that has never been made before; to allow an idea to percolate until it becomes a reality. It is also essential to human spiritual and emotional maturity. We can accept answers from outside ourselves as valid, and sometimes they are, but that is also the easiest way to be manipulated. When we are incurious, we are easy targets for all sorts of nefarious scams. It is important to do our work, not just in gathering information, but also in developing our own answers. We evolve spiritually by delving, and investigating, and sticking our noses into new ideas about spirituality. We ask questions, and listen to answers, and then decide for ourselves. Doing this, and taking to heart what we learn, helps us to become more open-minded, less judgmental, and less assured of our “rightness.” Instead of closing our minds, and becoming dogmatic, it opens our minds to possibilities, potential and the full array of options. And the good news is, there is always more to learn. So, go out there today and be curious!

                                                      In the Spirit,
                                                         Jane

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