Saturday, July 18, 2020

Welcoming the Strange and the Stranger


Pandemic Hospitality

“Hospitality is a form of worship.”
The Talmud

          The ancient story of Abraham welcoming the strangers is in the Hebrew scriptures, in the Christian Bible and, in a slightly different form, in the Qur’an. Hospitality means many things. The version we are most familiar with is “a friendly and generous reception of people into your home,” as Abraham demonstrated in Genesis. Also, hospitality, in its broader definition, simply means “the way people treat others” with kindness, interest, and generosity. Louis, chevalier de Jaucourt defined it as, “the virtue of a great soul that cares for the whole universe.” Others carry it beyond the usual realm and say we are practicing hospitality any time we are building relationship with another of God’s creatures.

          When we put out a bird feeder, or a water bowl for whatever creature ambles by, we are showing hospitality. When we adopt an abandoned dog or cat, or foster animals until permanent homes can be found, we are being hospitable. When we send a card to someone we care about or someone we haven’t seen for a while, we are in the service of welcoming. When a valet parks our car, he/she is practicing hospitality.

Hospitality is shown any time we concern ourselves with the comfort of others. Right now, during this pandemic, we engage in hospitality when we wear a mask in public, because masks signify that we are concerned enough about other people to consider their health, and are willing to tolerate a small degree of discomfort to do that.

          We all miss the ability to truly engage in full-blown hospitality. We miss having people over for dinner, traveling to our usual haunts, and making special trips to places we have wanted to see our whole lives. We all miss the normalcy of social engagement on a grand scale. But right now, the truest form of hospitality is found in NOT doing any of that. It is found in being concerned enough for the wellbeing of others to batten down our hatches and tolerate the isolation for a little while longer. We can do this. Consider it worship.
                                                  In the Spirit,
                                                  Jane
         

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