Wednesday, December 11, 2019

Give the Gift of Mother Earth


Gift of Nature

Sometimes she heard night sounds she didn't know or jumped from lightening too close, but whenever she stumbled, it was the land who caught her. Until at last, at some unclaimed moment, the heart-pain seeped away like water into sand. Still there, but deep. Kya laid her hand upon the breathing, wet earth, and the marsh became her mother.”
Delia Owens (Where the Crawdads Sing)

My friend Melissa and I have had many conversations about the way we grew up as opposed to the way many children grow up today. Both of our families lived in small towns, where people knew each other, and the streets were walk-able and more or less safe. The major difference between our childhoods and that of today's children was our connection to the earth. I spent most of my childhood outside, and so did she. I hardly ever wore shoes in summer—just to church, and whenever I had to go to town. Instead, I developed feet tough enough to walk on the bare earth without them. I spent many, many hours on my own in the woods, and in creek bottoms, turning over rocks and catching crawdads and tadpoles. I rode my bicycle all over town, and no one followed me around fretting that I might get hurt or lost. I was free to explore, and I did exactly that. And so did Melissa.

As a consequence of that childhood, the earth feels like home to both of us. I know the creatures, their habits, and have a fondness for them as much as for my pets. I don't fear the possums and raccoons that come to the front porch to eat cat-food. And, interestingly enough, neither does the cat who resides there—they have mutual respect for one another. In short, a connection to the natural world is still deeply ingrained in my DNA, and in Melissa's. I fear that connection is being lost on the children of today, and the disconnect is driving our heedlessness about the needs of the earth. I can see why people, such as our current president, who grew up in a massive city, New York, and did not have the experience of walking barefoot on the earth, and waking to the sound of songbirds in the trees around, would not have the same connection or concern for the environment. But this lack of consideration for our contribution to the destruction of this planet will overshadow every aspect of human and animal life for the next century. We simply must address it, or there will be no safe habitat for us, much less our animal friends.

My solution, were it possible, would be for everyone to have deep and regular experience of the earth, of traipsing through the woods, and splashing in creeks. If we were more related to the animals who make their homes among us, we would feel differently about their habitat, and their needs for food and safety. We would, in fact, be stewards of the earth and her creatures. I know this is not possible for everyone, especially children living in big cities. 

So, for Christmas gifts (or Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa) this year, consider giving the children in your life a wild adventure—not to Disney World, but to the actual wild-kingdom. Give them opportunities for camps and hikes and nature experiences that will put them in direct contact with the earth and her beauties. Give them nature walks, or earth-exploration books or classes, take them to the zoo and talk about the animals, give them bags of food to put out for the squirrels and chipmunks and birds living in their neighborhoods. If the younger generations learn to love the earth and not fear it, perhaps they will take better care of it than previous generations. Maybe they will acquire the ethic that the earth is not simply here to be exploited for money, but is our forever home. What a gift of love that would be.

                                                            In the Spirit,
                                                                 Jane

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