Saturday, October 27, 2018

Time for Joining Hands


Connections

...the health of all community depends on how we treat each other.”
Mark Nepo (“Eight Worldviews and Practices,” Parabola, Winter, 2018, p.10)

Since humans were hunter-gatherers, we have known that in order to survive we must work together. We moderns are the most “individualized” population ever. Because of technology and our preference for individual housing, we have kidded ourselves into thinking that we don't need others, that we are perfectly capable of taking care of ourselves. It wasn't true when we were homesteading in caves, and it isn't so now.

So many of our traditional greetings and practices point to this reality. Clasping hands and saying, “good to meet you,” for instance, is the Western way of declaring “Namaste”—the divine in me salutes the divine in you. In his article in Parabola, Mark Nepo cites a Blackfoot tribal greeting that asks, “How are the connections?” Native people know that without healthy connections, our own well-being is in jeopardy. But perhaps Jesus said it most clearly: “If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand.” (Mark 3:25)

At some point, hopefully now, we must grasp the truth that “us against the world” is not a productive way to live. Neither is “I am right and you are wrong.” All the nuclear warheads in the world will not make us safe if humans continue down the path of separate and unequal. We have come to espouse the unsustainable ideology of “if you aren't with me, you are against me” more than “we are all brothers and sisters in the eyes of God.” The Native American recognition of “All my relations” is a great standard for the rest of us—all things are connected, therefore all things are related to me, and without these relations, I am nothing. This is a time for reconciliation and joining. It is time to declare an end to all our petty divisions. We are one people, on one planet, with one hope—we all want to survive, and not only survive, but thrive. To thrive we must cherish our connections—to one another and to all of Creation.

                                                         In the Spirit,
                                                                Jane

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