Sacred Life
“At this
time I find it more and more important to have outer activities that
can connect us to what is more natural and help us live in
relationship to the deep root of our being, and in an awareness of
the moment which alone can give real meaning to our everyday
existence.”
Llewellyn
Vaughan-Lee (“The Art of Cleaning” Parabola, Summer, 2017, p. 11)
Long ago, when I was
married and had one young son, my husband and I met some college
friends of his on an island in the Caribbean—St. Bart, I believe.
We rented a house that offered the services of a caretaker for
cleaning and cooking. Each morning, two French-speaking women came
very early, before we were up. They cleaned the house and cooked
breakfast, and while we were eating, they made the beds, swept the
porches and even swept the sand that surrounded the house. They used
hand-made brooms with fan-shaped bristles, and created over-lapping
arcs in the sand. It was quite beautiful.
Those were days long
before cell phones. I was an emotional mess because I was away from
my child for such a long time, and the phones were down on the
island, so I couldn't call and check on him. Our friends, who did not yet have children, thought me crazy--and they were right. But these women, dressed
in simple cotton dresses and sandals, jet-black hair tied back with a
ribbon, seemed perfectly happy doing what they were doing. They
worked in tandem with total concentration and seemingly effortless
movement, and watching them calmed even me. It was a demonstration of
whole body meditation that I have not forgotten. Today, when my head
is swirling, I head for my basement, and sweep, and organize and
dust. It never fails to pull me back to earth.
There is something about
performing simple, essential tasks—sweeping, dusting, ironing,
cooking—that anchors us in our bodies, and reminds us of our
attachment to time, and place and home. As we sweep out the debris of
our living space, we clear out our mental garbage as well. These
simple chores can be considered onerous, or they can be an exercise
in grounding. If done with attention to detail and presence of mind,
they provide a connection to antiquity. They link us to our ancestors
back through the ages, because these are tasks that humans have
always done. In these days of super connectivity, and technology
over-load, we need them more than ever. Approaching every aspect of
life with reverence makes for a sacred life.
In the Spirit,
Jane
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