Conjunctive
Faith
“This
is the point at which people begin to realize the limits of logic and
start to accept the paradox in life. They begin to see life as a
mystery and often return to sacred stories and symbols, but this time
without being stuck in a theological box.”
James
Fowler (Stages of Faith)
A lot
has been written about this particular stage of faith—that very few
people reach it, that it's part of a mid-life crisis. In some ways it
could be called a crisis of faith, since it is a stage at which many
people leave the religion of their childhood and young adulthood.
Life experience teaches us that our religion doesn't always reward us
in the ways we expect it to: bad things do happen to very good
people, inexplicable harm comes to little children, sometimes evil
wins over good. We lose faith in the “hand of God” to restore the
world and us to health, and to right the wrongs of humanity.
Another way of looking at this stage is that it is the one in which our spirituality comes
alive. It expands and takes on a life of its own. It moves out of the
confines of religious dogma and wakes to the mystery of divine creation. Now
the stories from the Bible and other scripture, as well as fairy
tales and myths, begin to make sense and have relevance to our flesh
and blood selves. I AM the Prodigal Son, I AM the blind beggar, or the
woman at the well. I understand what it means to be Inanna in the
underworld being turned into green meat and hung on a hook, or to be
touched by the healing compassion of Kwan Yin. We see these and many
more stories within us, numinous, with beating hearts. This is ripe
spirituality.
To
the extent we find a spiritual path that has authentic depth for us,
we feel secure and unafraid to face our future. When we simply turn our backs on all of
it, with nothing to fill our human need for connection to the
sacred, both within and without, we become cynical and bitter. This
stage of faith more than any other is a turning point that determines
how we will live out the final half of life—with integrity or
mistrust.
In
the Spirit,
Jane
1 comment:
Great post Jane! Very helpful insight. Fowler's book Stages of Faith is a wonderful resource which I consider to be as important as Erik Erikson's psychosocial Stages of Human Development.
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