Pure
Emotion
“All
emotions are pure which gather you and lift you up; that emotion is
impure which seizes only one side of your being and so distorts you.”
Rainer
Maria Rilke
I
don't disagree with Rilke about many things, but I beg to differ on
this one. Characterizing some emotions as pure and others as impure
seems erroneous to me. Emotions simply are—they are innate, we feel
them, they are generated by a part of the brain we do not control. Something happens, and a switch flips inside us. It takes a
little time for the impulse to reach our prefrontal cortex, where we
turn it into behavior. Now that's where control and responsibility
come into play.
Remember
that old saw your mother taught you about counting to ten when you're
angry? Well, it turns out to be more than an old wives tale. If we
put into play the counting of ten, time is allowed for that anger signal to
reach the part of our brain that is reasonable, that can evaluate
whether our emotion is legitimate. Still, there is a place for
righteous indignation. In fact, I think social change rarely happens
without it. I believe that anger is necessary and “pure” in
certain situations, especially where injustice is concerned. A good
example would be when Jesus overturned the tables of the money
changers. He was outraged at their unjust practices, and his behavior
was not tame, or meant to appease.
Every
human emotion carries equal weight. Each is a signal to tell
us either when something is not right, or when something is very right. The
many steps between rage and joy represent the spectrum of messages
our higher self sends as an invitation to awareness. They say, “Pay
attention to this. It is important.” It is not a good idea to act
without thinking, but it is a very good idea to feel what you feel
without judgment.
In
the Spirit,
Jane
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