Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Trim the Sails

Odyssey

The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living that suits all cases.”
Carl Jung

When one lives a solitary life, having a house guest can be an eye-opening glimpse into how the rest of the world functions. Suddenly, routine is broken, accommodations made; one talks more, goes more and eats more in those few days than in the three months prior to, or after, the occasion. One becomes immersed in the trials and tribulations, triumphs and joys of persons that, until this moment, were completely unknown. It's truly quite exhausting and, at the same time, invigorating.

One of those important light-bulb moments comes when you realize that you don't want to live another person's life. Harboring envy for the way someone else conducts their days is draining. And judging the lifestyle of another is equally unproductive. Each of us is here to live the life that suits us. Some of us choose to dive into the fastest current in the river and swim with the big fish. Others prefer to paddle the gentle eddies, and some simply want to observe from the shoreline. All are valid ways of living. All produce rewards.

My heart-rate was up with all that house-guest stimulation; now it's beginning to return to normal. I shall have long, lovely hours to ponder all that crammed itself into one four-day odyssey. Life is so interesting, isn't it?

                                                            In the Spirit,

                                                                 Jane

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