Thursday, January 8, 2015

Staying on Track

To-Do Lists

People are remarkably bad at remembering long lists of goals. I learned this at the professional level when trying to get my high-performance coaching clients to stay on track; the longer their lists of to-dos and goals, the more overwhelmed and off-track they got. Clarity comes with simplicity.”
Brendon Burchard

I should have that last sentence tattooed on my hands, so all day long I could be reminded that simplicity is the key to being clear-headed. I don't know about you, but my “need to-do” list extends from here to China. I go from room to room, place to place, reminding myself of what needs to be done, until my head feels like it will explode. It's quite non-productive. I could simply spin in place and get as much done. It takes a lot of energy to be in angst all the time.

We humans have a need to feel important, don't we? We want to think of ourselves as essential to something, or someone. And we are to a degree, but I can't think a single person who could not be replaced if they were to disappear today. Not to suggest that they would not be missed, or, rather, that we would not be missed. But essential, no.

Being productive requires a clear head. No day should have more than five to-dos on the list, and one of those should be “rest, breathe.” Most of us can remember five things whether we write them down or not—that's the number in our zip code, fewer than telephone or social security. It's doable. It's sane.

Today, let's give ourselves a break. Keep the list short. Build in some down time. Cherish the moments. This is your life. You don't want to miss it.

                                                        In the Spirit,

                                                            Jane

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