Friday, October 31, 2014

Are you a celebratory person?

Halloween

It is said that All Hallows' Eve is one of the nights when the veil between the worlds is thin—and whether you believe in such things or not, those roaming spirits probably believe in you, or at least acknowledge your existence, considering that it used to be their own. Even the air feels different on Halloween...”
Erin Morgenstern

I've decided there are two kinds of people in this world—celebratory and non-celebratory. There are some highly celebratory people living in my neighborhood. One such household has an entire Halloween scene in their front yard; a grave yard with about 15 grave stones amid stacks of hay. They must have bought out somebody's pumpkin patch. There are four life-sized zombies, spider webs covering every bush, orange and purple (since when is purple a Halloween color?) lights, ghosts hanging from tree limbs, signs warning that the house is haunted, and one sign announcing a radio station for listening to scary Halloween sounds. It's quite impressive to say the least. I can't wait to see what Christmas holds for them!

When I arrived at my friends' house last Saturday for the football game, they were hanging what can only be described as a “ghost ring-wraith” on their front porch. It is seriously ugly, y'all. They worked for 10 minutes to secure his skeletal head in just the proper direction. I hope they don't forget he's there and scare themselves into a heart-attack. My son, Ian, who's always loved Halloween, has his entire yard draped in spider web, a variety of bloody body parts hanging and scattered around, bloody hand prints on the porch and door, the whole nine yards. Very inviting for little children, I'm sure.

I am decidedly the other sort of person—non-celebratory. I have entirely too much of my mother's practical Scottish blood coursing through my veins to spend perfectly good money on such “nonsense.” So my front porch is pumpkin-less, and there are no purple lights. If I want light, I'll set a stack of logs in the fireplace and touch a match to them. I nod to Halloween by buying a sack of candy to hand out, and by lighting a candle for my ancestors—may they rest in peace. I like the notion that there are certain days of the year when the veil between the worlds is thin and spirits easily travel between. Peaceful spirits, that is. Not like that hideous thing my friends hung on their porch.

Whether you're a celebratory person or not, I wish you a Happy Halloween. May the spirits of all your ancestors be in kindly moods when they visit you tonight. May they not remember your youthful disrespect and transgressions. Better light that candle right now.

                                                             In the Spirit,
                                                                    Jane



2 comments:

Charles Kinnaird said...

By your definition, I suppose I am non-celebratory (perhaps due to my own Scottish blood), but you gave me an idea for observance: to take advantage of this thin-spaced time to recall and to celebrate my own departed ancestors.

What Matters Most said...

Jane, I am definitely a Non-Celebratory person. Buying groceries today at Kroger, I was checked out by a Coca Cola Bottle. Now when did Coca Cola Bottles become a costume for Halloween. That's as crazy as adults particvipating in a kid's holiday.
Jim High