Thursday, July 31, 2014

Naughty or Nice?

Two Minds

Sometimes I am two people. Johnny is the nice one. Cash causes all the trouble. They fight.” Johnny Cash

There's nothing like being of two minds. Paul, in his letter to the Romans, said it this way: “I want to do what is good, but I don't. I don't want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway.” (Ro. 7:19) Jesus even made note of it when he said, “The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.” (Mt. 26:41) We are many-faceted jewels of contradiction. Most of us have good intentions, but our good intentions don't count for much if we never act on them.

What happens most often is we fail to act in a timely manner, so the course is decided by our inaction. That's the passive way of making decisions. I'm speaking for myself, of course. You may be a very decisive sort that get things done as soon as you see the need. If so, my hat's off to you. I tend to let things linger. I'm talking about the little things, things anyone could do—like calling a friend. I have this scenario all the time: I'll have someone persistently on my mind, as though they're standing in a corridor waiting for a door to open. I'll think, I should call her, or send him an email. They linger there, waiting, and I never get around to calling—I never open the door. It's inexcusable if I am their friend, and yet...

We humans seem better able to take strong stands in impersonal situations. We curse the government, condemn the tyrants, expound about how things 'should be' and are not. But in the little, personal things, those that actually require something of us, we aren't so bold. I'd like to do that, but I'm too busy—and we are busy, busy people. Sometimes we have time for everything but the doing of good. At least, I do.

Two minds that fight: the one who is “nice” and the one who “causes all the trouble.” Which one will win today?

                                                   In the Spirit,

                                                      Jane

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