Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Are you up to the task?

The Hero's Journey

We are on the hero's journey when we submit to the deep processes of life and allow them to affect us and bore their necessities into us. We are the hero when we take on the challenges and go through our initiations and transformations, enduring loss and gain, feeling happy and sad, making progress and falling back. The hero is engaged in life.”
Thomas Moore (A Religion of One's Own)

Great literature almost always involves the tale of a hero's journey. From the Odyssey, to Moby Dick, to Harry Potter, we love to read the saga of the long and difficult transformation of the hero who sails out into the unknown, and returns home a changed person. The hero is almost always reluctant to take on the journey, feeling inadequate, feeling that others have more strength and endurance. Take Katniss in The Hunger Games, for instance. She stepped into the fray in place of her younger sister. Initially, she expected to die in the arena; she had no belief in herself as a possible winner, so her strategy became to simply hide from stronger players and try to survive. But then she met others, Peeta for one, and Rue, who were weaker than she, and she wanted to help them survive, too. The hero's journey always involves dedication to life, to one's own and to that of others.

When we walk through our lives in a conscious way, allowing others to affect us, getting scarred by our loves and losses, and becoming more aware each day of who we are, and what our task is, we take on the hero's journey. We don't think of ourselves as heroes, but living life without blinders, experiencing all the ups and downs, coming to grips with the reality of joy and pain, is a hero's journey. One of my sons said to me recently, “It just doesn't get any easier, does it?” He had just lost his beloved dog. My response was, “That makes it all the more important to love the sweet spots when you have them.” The one who embraces life with all its beauty and ugliness is truly heroic.

                                              In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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