Thursday, January 30, 2014

Hard times produce...

Acts of Kindness

What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?”
Jean Jacques Rousseau

I'm beginning to think we need an occasional disaster, if for no other reason than to bring out the best in people. Over the last two days, while the deep south has been locked down by freezing conditions, I have heard of more random acts of kindness than in the last five years put together. My daughter-in-law's sister was taken into a total stranger's home overnight when she had to abandon her car on the highway. People walked down the frozen interstate taking food and drink to those stranded in their cars. Folks were out on 4-wheelers, the only vehicles that could move over the ice, ferrying people they had never met to safety. One of those people was a woman in labor—they got her out of gridlock, to an emergency vehicle in time to have her baby! It is quite heartwarming to see what we humans are capable of when push comes to shove.

The question is, why aren't we like that all the time? One wonders why we need a natural disaster to drive us into kindheartedness. My sons and I walked a mile or so yesterday to check on Ian's car where he had left it in a parking lot. The streets were still too icy and treacherous to risk driving on. In the hour it took us to make the trip, we saw three people being helped by total strangers to get their cars out of the middle of the road—three guys even pushed an old Pontiac—one of those “land-yacht” types from the old days, up an icy, slippery hill. It was truly touching.

I want us to remember this time, not as a terrible calamity that 'coulda-shoulda' been predicted, and that someone ought to be blamed for, but as an opportunity to try out our kindness skills. From everything I saw with my own eyes, and heard on the local news, we've still got them. We just need to practice them more often.

                                                           In the Spirit,

                                                                  Jane

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