Monday, June 3, 2013

Instructions for living.

Recipe for Life

Instructions for living a life...
Pay attention,
Be astonished.
Tell about it.”
                                               Mary Oliver

In yesterday's spirituality group, we worked with our dreams. Snakes figured prominently—everybody, when they first begin working with the unconscious portion of the mind, has a snake dream. The snake is one of the oldest symbols in the pantheon of archetypes—the earliest being the uroboros, the snake circle, head clasping tail. The Sword of Asclepius is the symbol even today of the American Medical Association, because snake is associated with healing. And in the story of Eden, it was the snake who brought consciousness to Adam and Eve. Yet, we are universally terrified of snake dreams. It's a good symbol, y'all! Give the snake a break!

Something that astonishes to me, after thirty years of looking at my dreams and those of others, is the accuracy of the images. And the way the dream maker has of pulling up images that aren't even in our experience and yet they are right on point. Or, inserting people who haven't crossed our mind for decades, who we may barely remember, yet there they are in the dream, bringing with them whatever subtle associations we may still possess. One of my favorite dream images is my sister, Missy; unlike the other members of my family, she makes a regular appearance in my dreams. In real life, Missy could do nothing for herself; was completely disabled by cerebral palsy, and yet possessed a strength of character at her core that was undeniable. She represents in me some essential, stripped down, unvarnished and untarnished heart. When she shows up in my dreams, I know I'm in good hands.

Is there some part of life that still astonishes you? Something you've experienced dozens of times, yet still has the power to drop you to your knees? My friend Anna said the symphony on Saturday night did that for her. We need Wonder. She is the grandmother of Hope and Faith, those essential sisters of a happy heart. Go out there today and live life...pay attention...be astonished and tell others about it.

                                               In the spirit,

                                                   Jane

No comments: