Friday, May 10, 2013

Traveling a Rough Road


Rough Patches

Accept each part of the journey as it comes. Let each stretch of your path be what it needs to be.”
                                 Melody Beattie (Journey to the Heart)

On Monday's and Friday's, I travel 15 miles east on Interstate 20 to the Bama Flea and Antiques Mall to manage my booth. For the next three months the state is rebuilding three bridges along my route, both east and west lanes. A mile or so of the interstate is closed. For me, and I'm sure for many people who live in the eastern sections of the county, there's no way to get there without going under those bridges. I hold my breath every time. Chunks of concrete rain down and red mobile braces hold up the rusty spans. Before construction, some sections were so rough, people blew out tires on them. Portions of Alabama, especially our bankrupt county, would fit nicely into the developing world. I'm dead serious.

Sometimes life looks a lot like that stretch of interstate. The going is rough. You have to slow down to a crawl, or detour and take an alternate route. Occasionally, you have to plot a different course all together. Sometimes it's boring or lonely; we're tempted to fall asleep or pick up a hitch-hiker. Not a smart idea. But rough going is not a good reason to stop—at least not for long. Sometimes we have to take a break, get a cup of coffee, settle our nerves, but then we need to get back on the path and continue our journey.

I remember a particular road in Guatemala where we were warned bandits operated. The road angled along the side of a mountain, a shear drop on one side and lots of curves. The bandits would roll a rock or a tree trunk into the road to stop tour buses, then rob the riders. There was no turning around on that road and most of it had long since lost its paving. Rough doesn't even begin to describe it. But we journeyed on, albeit slowly and nervously—we weren't robbed. We lived to tell this story. Such is life. Keep to the path, be patient with the rough patches, knowing the way will smooth out eventually. All things change with time and distance.

I'll make my little odyssey to the Bama Flea today as usual. I'm thinking about getting myself a flack jacket and hard hat to wear when I run under those bridges, y'all. I'll pretend I'm on safari.

                                           In the spirit,
                                              Jane

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