Thursday, February 21, 2013

In making decisions...


Trust the Gut

All our progress is an unfolding, like a vegetable bud. You have first an instinct, then an opinion, then a knowledge as the plant has root, bud and fruit. Trust the instinct to the end, though you can render no reason.”
                                           Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Trust your gut,” I said, when she asked what she should do about her friend, who was telling her one thing, while her intuition told her something quite different. In the words of Steve Jobs, “Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice.”

I am a believer in 'going with the gut', or following one's instincts. I think it is interesting that we still place intuition in the belly, rather than the head. How could it be a brain function, we wonder, when it's so slippery and unsubstantial. We somehow trust our thinking brain more than we do our “seeing” brain. But the thinking brain is much more likely to spin the information in the direction we want it to go. It can deny, regress, act out, dissociate, sublimate, compartmentalize, project, rationalize, compensate, and convert unwanted impulses into more acceptable ones. The intuition simply knows, without all that song and dance.

Most of our great scientists stumbled upon their discoveries by following their intuition. Einstein, for example suggested that no original discoveries are made by thinking them, they are found when one is “feeling for the order lying behind the appearance.” Jonas Salk posited that “intuition will tell the thinking mind where to look next.”

All of us, whether we acknowledge it or not, use our intuition every day. And those of us who consider ourselves mystics, rely on it wholeheartedly. William Wordsworth described faith as a “passionate intuition.” What else could it be—there is no way to prove our belief that there is something greater than ourselves at work in the world, but somehow, we know it is true. We sense it, we feel it, we see it. It helps to use the thinking brain to inform and educate, to problem solve, and plan. But never underestimate the truth and valuable guidance that comes from your “gut”; it will never lead you astray.

                                             In the spirit,
                                                Jane

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