Essential
or Non-Essential
“Besides
the noble art of getting things done, there is the noble art of
leaving things undone. The wisdom of life consists in the elimination
of non-essentials.”
Lin
Yutang
As
I've mentioned before, I have begun working for my son, the antiques
dealer—posting and shipping items for his ebay business. I like it
because I make a little money and it helps him. But sometimes, I get
a bit carried away. Take for instance the case of the Stereo
Viewer—one of those old 50's era View Master slide viewers with a
little light inside that makes the picture three dimensional. I
listed it without checking to see whether it worked. Someone in
Canada bought it for $20.00, and Ian told me, “Make sure it works
before you ship it.” Well, I took it apart, cleaned the battery
contacts, drove to the CVS, bought a pack of C batteries ($6.00+tax),
put them into the viewer—didn't work. Bulb must be burned out.
Tried to unscrew the bulb, but since it was old, it crushed in my
hand. Finally got it out and drove to the Home Depot to buy a bulb; I
was told by an incredulous young woman that “they don't make 'em
like that any more.” So I drove to a camera shop across town and
was told that the only store that might have those old “screw-in
models” would be Batteries Plus. Drove to Batteries Plus—they
didn't have it but sent me to their Trussville store ten miles away.
Miracle of miracles! They had the bulb, so I bought it ($4.50+tax)
and drove home. Screwed it into the viewer, popped in the batteries
and guess what—it didn't work! Now I've driven at least forty
miles, burned half a tank of outrageously expensive gasoline, spent
more than half the value of the item, not to mention hours of my
time, and it still doesn't work. I emailed the customer and
explained—he said, “Well, I still want the viewer, so send it on!”
This is the point at which we Southerners say, “Lord have mercy!”
and some other things I won't write in this spirituality blog.
Doing
more than I need to is just one of the ways I spend time and treasure
on non-essential things. How about you? Getting things done is good,
but learning how to sort the essential from the non-essential is
critical. There is a word in the medical field for this
sorting—triage. Deciding what is important, a priority, and putting
that first on the list, and then ranking according to necessity. It's
a good skill to develop in our busy-busy, get-things-done world. Just
taking five minutes in the morning and asking the question, “What
really needs to be done today and what can wait until tomorrow?”
would help us to move through the to-do list in a sane fashion.
I
shipped the Stereo Viewer yesterday. I paid more to ship it
to Canada than it brought on ebay. It's surprising what can be
learned from a sixty year old toy!
In
the spirit,
Jane
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