Thursday, January 3, 2013

Remembering who you are.


Becoming Unencumbered

Coming to consciousness is not a discovery of some new thing; it is a long and painful return to that which has always been there.”
                                              Helen Luke

My friend, Harry, and I have been facilitating a little spirituality group on Sunday mornings. Young people in their twenties, they are at the groping stages of determining their true faith path. So we talk mainly of the “recovery” process—how can they be true to themselves and to the faith of their birth at the same time. They have universally found themselves waking up to the contradictions and inconsistencies in their faith of origin, and in anger, have walked away. Yet they still yearn for something real to believe in. Harry and I are attempting to give them new tools and perspectives for looking at the same thing with new eyes. And they are giving us their insights with that crystal clarity that only the young possess. It is a win-win kind of group.

Over the course of a lifetime, as we gain experience, as we succeed and fail, as we grow and learn, and are inspired and disappointed, we shape our picture of the world. Our faith is also shaped by life. If we are lucky, we go from being concrete and fundamental, to being disenchanted, to being appropriately secure and expansive. We see that there are many paths to the same destination and one or another, or a combination of several, may be what is right for us. We go from a child-like interpretation of divine parenthood, to a concept of unity and universality. A oneness.

The process, which is difficult for many, especially if the faith of their childhood was a punitive one, is one of stripping away what has been layered on by tradition and fear, and finding at the bottom, what has always been waiting there. It is the spiral movement into the center; the opening of the lotus or the rose, one petal at a time.

A newborn baby comes into the world as an unencumbered unity. And when we allow our spiritual life to mature over a lifetime, we return to God with that same unity, only ripe now with the fruits of wisdom and experience. In between, we learn how to make the journey home.

                                         In the spirit,
                                            Jane

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