Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Let me restate that...


Making Progress

We all want progress, but if you're on the wrong road, progress means doing and about-turn and walking back to the right road; in that case, the man who turns back soonest is the most progressive.”
                                                   C.S. Lewis

Yesterday, one of you kindly pointed out a major flaw in my thinking, and for that I am deeply grateful. Ina emailed me and very kindly asked about my notion that we struggle with controversial issues, but always come down on the right side. She listed a few of our mistakes--'what about Vietnam, Iraq, Guantanamo; what about our Native Americans?' And of course, she is right. We absolutely have made terrible and costly mistakes—we have wronged people and left them to suffer, we have, in the wars of the last 10 years, killed tens of thousands of people in Iraq and Afghanistan. We, as American's have as much blood on our hands as anyone in the world. We do not stand blameless and in fact, even now we wrestle with prejudice and discrimination, most especially toward our gay and lesbian population, and our undocumented immigrants.

I suppose what I was thinking about yesterday was our Civil Rights era as it related to African Americans. We have struggled with the issue of race from the time of our birth as a nation, and we struggle with it still. I believe the deep hatred some people have for our President is veiled racial prejudice, though no one wants to call it that. We have certainly made progress, but it must seem to many, too little and too late. As a country, we have not made sure that all children receive a quality education, and we have failed to hold certain populations to the same standards, or allow them the same privileges, as the majority white race. I found this to be just as true in New York City and California, in North Carolina and Tennessee and Florida, as it is in Alabama. The South does not hold a monopoly on prejudice, though we have certainly fallen far short of perfection.

So, I want to retract my statement that we always come down on the side of 'right'. I want to say this: we struggle, we debate, we wrestle with ourselves and each other, and some of the time, we get it right. I truly believe that in the long run, we will grow into the nation that we believe ourselves to be, simply because we are willing to struggle. Our children are far less restricted in their acceptance of differences than our generation or our parents generation, and their children will be even more so. And soon, we will be one nation composed totally of minority populations—all of us will fit the category, so we'd better figure out how to live together in peace.

Thank you so much, Ina, for helping me to think this through and realize my mistake. I always appreciate your comments, whether you like what you read, or not, so keep them coming.

                                               In the spirit,
                                                  Jane

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