Friday, December 2, 2022

Lacey Snowflakes

 

Crystals and Chromosomes

“The snowflakes fall, each in their proper place.”

Zen Saying

          Thankfully, it isn’t snowing here in western North Carolina. In fact, the high temperatures this week will be in the 60’s, as high as 67 degrees. This is December 2nd. Thanks to global warming, there’s not much chance of a white Christmas this year.

          Most people love snow—I did as a child because it meant a day without school. Now, I just find it cold and treacherous. But I do agree there’s something magical about the snowflakes—their unique crystalline form, their variety, their variation in size and shape. Two snowflakes falling together, side-by-side, will be entirely different from one another. But both are still snow, still frozen water, still lacey and perfect. Aren’t we a lot like that?

          The more I delve into human makeup, the more similar I find people to be. Yes, we come in all sizes and shapes, all colors, and combinations of styles—yet we are all humans. Our DNA is identical. We all have 52 chromosomes, banded by inherited markings that determine which traits will be active and which dormant. Looking at personality types, we all fall into a few categories with common behaviors and natures. Each may be expressed differently, and yet there are plenty of shared likenesses that can be measured. There are predictable patterns in our expression of interests and abilities, personality similarities and styles of relating to others. Like snowflakes, we are all the same species, with a variety of expressions, but more likeness than difference.

          As a child, I loved to watch ants at work. They marched out of the mound in nice straight lines, some scouted for food and informed the others of where to find it, some tended the nest, fed the larvae, stored the food that others brought in. Everyone of them, no matter how many there were, had a job to do that they did not veer away from. The scouts didn’t want to be larvae feeders, and the nest aerators didn’t want to be scouts. There was no hierarchy of importance. They just did their jobs. We aren’t like that.

          In so many ways, our big brains have served us and all of humanity well, but in others, we don’t have an advantage. We’re greedy, competitive, irrational, emotional, unnecessarily violent, and deceitful. But we’re also generous and caring and intelligent and given to altruism for no good reason except that our hearts are full of gratitude, and we want to help. Curious creatures one and all.

          I don’t know what sort of human you are, but I am certain that you and I are more alike than we are different. We breathe the same air, take nourishment from the earth, we stargaze and daydream. I am glad for that and heartened by it. We are sisters and brothers, as similar as snowflakes falling together in our proper place.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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