Tuesday, October 25, 2022

Open to Wonder

 

Moments of Rapture

“But those instants of capture by rapture aren’t wrong or rude or selfish, they’re medicine from the great mystery of life and from that part of the human spirit that refuses to capitulate to what is life-destroying. They are outrageous gifts of grace in hard times, and we are fools not to accept them.”

Trebbe Johnson (“Light Gifts in Dark Times,” Parabola, Winter 2022-2023, p.69)

          My friend, Sharon is visiting friends in Cimarron, New Mexico. She’s been sending photos and videos of the beautiful landscapes in that part of the world—where the great plains meet the Sangre de Cristo mountains. Breathtakingly beautiful. Yesterday, when it was almost 80 in Birmingham, it snowed there, and she sent photos of herself and her friend in down jackets, blankets, and cowgirl hats, brims filled with snowflakes, sitting beside a firepit. Sharon shows me over and over that life is to be enjoyed, explored and celebrated.

          In some parts of the world today, the autumn leaves are at their peak color. If you are stuck inside, at least go to the window and spend two minutes taking in the intense colors of fall. No matter what you are enduring, no matter how deep your fear, grief, anger, hurt or exhaustion may be, opening your eyes to what is beautiful around you is like inhaling the aroma of fresh herbs—it lifts your spirits and gives you a moment’s relief.

          My mother was one who thought that it inappropriate to be happy, or delighted if anyone around her, or even anyone she knew, was suffering in some way. Some days she had to scan the newspapers for tragic accidents or watch those terrible day-time shows about sadness and loss, to summon up despair. Once she said to me, “Alice is a really nice person—she’s had a terrible life,” as though one is prerequisite for the other. I loved my mother, don’t get me wrong, but she had a very hard time claiming joy even when it was dropped in her lap. I’ll bet you know someone like that, for whom joy feels sinful.

          Every time you open your eyes and see a beautiful sight—whether sunrise, or ocean waves, or the gorgeous colors of autumn—allow yourself time to take it in. That beauty is the gift of delight that grace affords us in good times and in bad. Take joy in it. And, just say thank you.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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