Tuesday, October 20, 2020

The Feminine Spirit

 

Memories and Meaning

“Once a jolly swagman camped beside a billabong

Under the shade of a coolibah tree.

He sang as he watched and waited ‘til his billy boiled,

You’ll come a waltzing Matilda with me.”

Banjo Patterson (c.1895)

          For unknown reasons, I woke this morning with this song playing in my head. I learned it during school assembly in the auditorium at Normal Park Elementary in Chattanooga. I couldn’t have been more than seven, and had absolutely no idea what it meant, but I learned the words and loved to sing it. The song actually arose out of the Australian depression of the 1890’s when many people became homeless and trekked (waltzed) around the country looking for work. The song is about a poor man, what we would call now, a beggar or a homeless person, who camps beside a creek (billabong) and makes himself a cup of tea. While he waits for the water to boil, a sheep comes to drink in the creek. The beggar seizes the sheep and stuffs it into his “Matilda” (rucksack). In other words, he steals the sheep because he is hungry. Later in the song, a “squatter” (the local authority) on horseback comes upon the “swagman” (vagabond) and demands the sheep’s return. Whereupon he jumps up and runs away rather than go to jail, so he is shot and killed. The last stanza of the song says that when people pass beside that billabong, his ghost can be heard singing “you’ll come a waltzing Matilda with me.”

          So, this little jingle that I learned in grammar school was, in fact, a protest song about poverty and the lack of compassion on the part of authorities for the needs of the poor. Was the sheep more valuable than the migrant farm worker? As a young woman, I taught children of the farm workers in California in the 1960’s. They were hardly there for more than a few months, and they lagged far behind other children in their basic skills, not because there was anything wrong with them intellectually, but because their lives had no stability. I remember the stories my grandmother told about our own great depression. My father’s family lost everything; their home, and their business, and moved into and operated a boarding house for other people who had lost everything. She told of hobos (swagmen) coming to the kitchen door to beg for food, which she always provided, even if it was only a biscuit. There has always been a spirit of generosity in America, especially when hard times hit all of us (like now).

          I like to think that spirit of compassion is still alive and well. It is the archetypal feminine spirit that is so needed in our time—the one that provides wisdom, nurturing, empathy, and, yes, joy. It is the spirit that reaches out and offers a hand to anyone who needs it. Brene Brown describes it as the recognition that we are all connected by something greater than ourselves, and that "something" is grounded in love and compassion. Whether we are male of female, we can embody the feminine spirit that is our universal connection to one another and to the world’s soul. If we want a kinder, gentler world, that is how we achieve it.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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