Sunday, September 20, 2020

What is success?

 

Living the Dream

“Start from wherever you are and with whatever you’ve got.”

Jim Rohn

          I just discovered Jim Rohn, a motivational business speaker who died in 2009. I like the pragmatic nature of his quotes. “If you really want to do something, you’ll find a way. If you really don’t want to do something, you’ll find an excuse.” “Either you run the day, or the day runs you.” “For every promise made, there is a price to pay.” Quick, snappy, easy to remember—he certainly knew how to plant seeds in the zeitgeist without being intrusive.

          It would be nice to think success in life is that easy for everyone. He said, “If you work hard, you have the right to play hard without guilt.” And that “Life is not just the passing of time. Life is the collection of experiences and their intensity.” I think perhaps all that is true, but I also know that financial success is relative to one’s circumstances and one’s starting point—unless you happen to be Abraham Lincoln, of course, but he was one of a kind.

          The danger in putting so much responsibility on the individual is that if we work and work and still don’t move up the proverbial ladder, we feel ourselves to be losers. I don’t believe anyone who works hard, and does their very best, is a loser. That is a mistaken capitalistic value that we have set for ourselves. It comes straight out of the Puritan work ethic which led us to believe there was an ever-ascending track everyone should be riding, and if you missed it, shame on you. In my world view, that simply is not valid.

People can be happy and lead successful lives without climbing any ladder at all. Only when money is the sole indicator of success is it necessary to ladder-climb, and some folks are miserable at the top no matter how much wealth they accrue. Here’s my motto: “Do what you love and live on what you make.” Chances are good that when we pour love into whatever we do, we produce our best product. At least, we feel happy while we’re doing it. That smells like success to me.

          I noticed that Jim Rohn was born and died in the same place—Yakima, WA. Whatever ladder he climbed was apparently right there at home—which proves nothing except that you do not have to be an international tycoon to succeed. If you live the life you love, you will succeed wherever you are. That’s my theory and I’m sticking to it.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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