Friday, August 28, 2020

Happy Brain


Neuroplasticity

Among other things, neuroplasticity means that emotions such as happiness and compassion can be cultivated in much the same way that a person can learn through repetition to play golf and basketball or master a musical instrument, and that such practice changes the activity and physical aspects of specific brain areas.” 
Andrew Weil

          I have been sewing since I was a teenager—and that was a long, long time ago. But it was not until recently that I made an important decision. In the past, when something wasn’t going the way I wanted, I simply put it aside or threw it away and started over. I have many remnants of unfinished projects in my bins of fabric. But a few years ago, I decided not to quit when something does not please me. I keep going, I make changes, I re-work, and I add to pieces until they do please me. Maybe that sounds simple to you, but it wasn’t for me because I was so judgmental about myself and my work. I have found over the years, however, that regardless of what you are attempting to do, practice really does make perfect—or at least, perfect enough. My rule now, is just keep going.

          Until relatively recently, we believed that adult brain cells, neurons, could not be replaced or repaired if they were damaged or lost. Now we know that, like everything else in our bodies, our brain cells find work arounds; they make new synaptic connections, grow extra dendrites, and eventually overcome certain types of damage. We see this when stroke patients regain functioning. This sort of brain restructuring usually happens in response to learning and experience. If we keep on learning, keep on practicing, and don’t give up, our brains reward us with new abilities.

          Dr. Andrew Weil says that happiness is a skill and as such requires time and effort. We must practice happiness if we want to master it. Just like any other skill, we get better over time so that what feels awkward and forced in the beginning, becomes our natural response to life. I’ll admit that this is easier for people who are optimistic by nature, but even pessimists have brain plasticity. What makes the difference is summoning the will, and the grit required make the change.

          We have been living under a cloud of unhappiness for some time now, especially since Covid 19 arrived on the scene. But we don’t help ourselves or anyone else by being constantly in the dumps. These are hard times, there is no doubt about that. But our bad mood makes everything worse. It would behoove us all to practice happiness until we lift the heaviness we feel. One way to help with this is focusing on the breath. Dr. Weil says that if he were to give one piece of advice for the health of humanity, it would be to learn how to breathe, and to practice deep cleansing breaths every day. And, while we are practicing our deep breath in, and slow exhale out, we think positive thoughts. Here’s a mantra for practice: “I breathe in with joy. I breathe out with gladness.” Slow and steady, y’all. Have a happy day.

                                                  In the Spirit,
                                                  Jane


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