Thursday, May 28, 2020

We all just want to be safe and happy.


World View
“It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves.”
Carl G. Jung
          I am in a weekly fairytale group on Zoom right now. Last night we discussed the Grimm’s fairytale, “The Three Snake-Leaves.” It is a short tale, so there was much time for discussion about characters and symbols and meanings. If you have ever taken the time to read and study fairytales you know that they allude to things but rarely state them clearly. You must discern the meaning for yourself. There were twelve people in the group, so there were twelve different interpretations—all of which were based, not so much on the story itself, but on the history of the person interpreting. We could have pulled out a book written by a scholarly Jungian Analyst to read their interpretation of the meanings and gotten a thirteenth opinion, but it’s likely that each of us would still secretly harbor our own. That’s how human beings operate—we have our own ideas and our own worldview, and it sometimes takes a grand explosion to change them.
          One of the reasons there continues to be deep divide in the world is this: we each have our own interpretation of meaning and importance. For example, it’s very hard for me to see photographs of people packing beaches or pools or bars right now, because I take seriously the CDC warnings for social distancing. Others don’t. They say, “let the chips fall where they may,” and go out and party hardy. To flaunt that attitude in the face of a pandemic seems fool-hearty and, well, just plain arrogant to me. Pride is a great blinder of our species. Jung said, “Through pride we are ever deceiving ourselves. But deep down below the surface of the average conscience, a still, small voice says to us, something is out of tune here.” Yes, something is quite out of tune here.
          On the bright side, perhaps we are on the road to consciousness. According to Carl Jung, “There is no consciousness without pain.” With 100,000 of our loved-ones dead in the US, and almost 2 million more infected with the virus, we are in pain, but we also seem to be in denial. To me, it is one thing to go to work if you must, and so many of us must, but to pack beaches, pools and bars—well, that’s the very definition of denial. But, here’s the deal—everybody sees it differently. The question for us is, is that okay? Can we deal with everybody being in different camps on this and still survive?
          We live in a fast-food, let-me-get-mine, get-out-of-my-way culture. It makes me sad to see us so self-absorbed. For the most part, I accept life as it comes, and am content to live in peace with myself. Life has shown me that pride is a pitiful game, and that we invariably reap the consequences of our choices. In the words of Carl Jung, “We deem those happy who from the experience of life have learnt to bear its ills without being overcome by them.” Divided or not, we all just want to be safe and happy.
                                                            In the Spirit,
                                                            Jane
         

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