Friday, October 18, 2019

Traveling Mercy


Earth Bound

I have never been to Rome. I have never been to Paris, or Greece, or Sweden. I went once to England, so long ago it seems like the Middle Ages. M. and I went once to the Far East, Japan and Malaysia and New Zealand and Indonesia, and I am glad I saw the Southern Cross, but I have not forgotten how it felt to think I was going to fall off the planet. I am not a traveler. Not of that sort.”
Mary Oliver (Upstream, p. 148)

I ran across this diary entry in Upstream this morning. I can't tell you how happy it made me! It seems I'm discovering kindred spirits all along the way. Sometimes, I feel like a freak when it comes to international travel—everyone I know, including my sons, goes abroad every chance they get. I have long felt there was some fundamental flaw in my makeup that I don't yearn to travel; don't harbor a deep, unrequited desire to see the fiords of Finland, the Sistine Chapel in Rome, or walk on the Great Wall of China. Finding that Mary Oliver, my hero, felt the same is equivalent to winning the lottery for me.

My friend, Andy, just returned from a month in the UK and Ireland. He and his siblings spent all that time going from one place to another, seeing every cathedral, castle, ruin and natural wonder on their tourist list. They went to multiple distilleries and walked on ledges above the wild Atlantic, while the wind blew and the rain fell and sometimes, they had to hold onto one another to keep from being blown off their feet. After two weeks, he was sick and exhausted, sore and stiff from all the hiking and stair-climbing, and three thousand miles from his own bed. Doesn't that sound like fun!

I am happy to stand on the tarmac and wave goodbye to my traveling friends. Give me a good old road-trip any day. Some of us are made to stay home, and travel abroad only in books and movies and our own imaginations. I know there are others out there who feel the same but don't want to say so for fear of being ostracized by the culture. Just know this: you are not alone! Some souls are bound to the land, and are content to stay and grow where they are planted. And that's just fine—especially since Mary Oliver was one of us! Our patron saint!

                                                     In the Spirit,
                                                        Jane


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