Sunday, December 25, 2022

Christmas, 2022

 

The Christ Child

“[Jesus] wanted us to raise up our lives a considerable notch: from unconscious, moralistic self-interest to a highly civilized and spiritually sophisticated life based on love and community. Unconscious living is like lettuce without oil, plants instead of salad, cold nutrition instead of warm dining. Jesus brings the oil of a soulful and spiritually elevated awareness to ordinary life, which otherwise tends to be full of unnecessary prejudice and aggression.”

Thomas Moore (The Soul of Christmas, p.20; Franciscan Media, 2016)

          Good Christmas morning to you. Today we celebrate the birth of Jesus—the anointed one, the messiah. In churches and homes around the world, presents will be opened, prayers of gratitude said, eggnog drunk, and toasts lifted to family and friends. Jesus’ message of two thousand years ago has not changed—love God, love one another. We want to follow his selfless way of life, but we fall short. We love each other, and still engage in self-serving behaviors. We want to be of service but find those who need our service difficult to be with, and sometimes unappreciative. We lose our tempers, pitch fits, lay on the horn, curse—oh, yeah, we’re not so much like sweet baby Jesus.

          Being human is not easy. Being Christian is dang-near impossible if you happen to be human. Going through the motions, saying the right words, enacting the traditional rituals and sacraments is not what Jesus taught. He commanded us to love our enemy, treat our neighbor as ourselves. He taught that if someone needs a coat, give him yours, and then take his burden and carry it an extra mile—even if he's foreign, fallen, and of a different race. And, people, it’s cold outside! Who’s going to give away their coat in this weather!

We are still mammals, possessing all the traits that go with being territorial and aggressive towards outsiders. The only way to be more like the baby whose birth we celebrate today is to become conscious—to do what Thomas Moore suggests in the quote above: “raise up our lives a considerable notch.”  We will not rise above our current state of “moralistic self-interest” so long as we remain unconscious that we even have it.

Here's the deal—we’re all imperfect, we’re selfish, we’re inclined to take care of our own. But the Christ child knows this about us and loves us anyway. That is his example! So what if someone says dumb stuff, love them anyway. So what is someone is snarky and cold and hateful? You don’t have to respond in kind. Forgive them. Understand that they are hurting inside in a way that maybe they can’t even name, and just let it go. We’re all human. And so was Jesus, so enjoy his birthday and try to be kind to one another. Celebrate love in all its forms and appreciate the people who love you in spite of your flaws. Merry Christmas, y’all. Make it a good one.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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