Monday, May 30, 2022

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Settle Down

“Once, history was a living sense of community, a reality in which one participated in everyday activity…It is easy to see why and how we have forgotten who we are and whence we came. We have become nomads in time.”

Diana Butler Bass (Grounded, p.141; Harper One, 2015)

          I’ve been reading these two books for a while: Grounded by Diana Butler Bass, who is a Christian historian, and The Art of Stillness by Pico Iyer, essayist, novelist, and world traveler, who writes about crossing cultures. While these books are seemingly about different subjects, they support the same ideology—that somehow, without our knowing it, we have become so absorbed by our technology that we have lost touch with our history, community, and even ourselves.

Bass writes that we know more about our ancestors and have more information about the past than any previous generation, and yet, we have very little actual experience of true family and even less historical understanding. One line from Iyer’s book based on his TED talk galvanized my attention: “The amount of data that humanity will collect while you’re reading this book [66 pages long] is five times greater than the amount that exists in the entire Library of Congress. Anyone reading this book will take in as much information today as Shakespeare took in over a lifetime.” (p.41) Let that sink in.

Nomads in time. We can google almost anything; join genealogy sites that trace our family back for ten generations, know how many soldiers were lost in any war that’s been fought in the past half-millennia. But we have less connection to ground, to our lived experience of time and place, to our heritage and our roots than generations past because we move from place to place in nomadic fashion. We have a thousand times more information about everything than any previous people, and less involvement with it. No wonder we grapple every day with feelings of “not belonging” and with loneliness.  

We try to fill that void by doing and consuming more and more, as though if we just hit on the right thing the restlessness within will stop. French mathematician and philosopher, Blaise Pascal, said, “All the unhappiness of men arises from one simple fact: they cannot sit quietly in their chamber.” According to Iyer, the famous explorer Admiral Richard E. Byrd, who spent five months alone in the Antarctic, wrote, “Half the confusion in the world comes from not knowing how little we need.” In order to regain our grounding, to settle down, we must step away from our devices, sit down, and quietly come back to ourselves. Pico Iyer says that interruption scientists report, “it takes an average of twenty-five minutes to recover from a phone call. Yet, such interruptions come every eleven minutes, which means we’re never caught up with our lives.” (p, 41)

The conclusion is that modern life moves too fast, and we humans are not built for the speed of our technology; it frazzles our nervous systems. One solution is to consciously become still and grounded and give our body/minds quiet time to catch up, to recover from the incessant busyness, to stop the mental data collection long enough to absorb at least a tiny bit of the information collected. Our constant complaint is exhaustion. I’m reminded of what everybody gives as the reason for quitting a stressful job, “I want to spend more time with my family.” What they really mean is, “I need to catch up with my soul.”

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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