Friday, April 8, 2022

The Possibilities of "Maybe"

 

Lovers, Dreamers, and You

“I have refused to live

locked in the orderly house of

reasons and proofs.

The world I live in and believe in

is wider than that. I’ll just

tell you this:

Only if there are angels in your head will you

ever, possibly, see one”

Mary Oliver (“The World I Live In”)

          I just saw on Facebook a letter written by a school principal asking parents to go easy on their children during exams and not to punish them if they didn’t do well on some subjects. He gave a list of career choices that would not require proficiency in Chemistry and Physics. He said, “there are children who will be artists, who do not need algebra.” And I said, thank God! Where was he when I was struggling through high school. Of course, the answer to that is he was not yet born—but you catch my drift.

          The question becomes: why make all children take higher mathematics knowing they will fail? You might also ask, why do children who struggle with writing have to take English classes. The answer to that is that no matter what they choose to do in life, they must be able to read, to comprehend the language, and to be able to express themselves in a coherent manner. Schools took a left turn with the emphasis on testing. The true experience children need is to love learning itself. It's hard to love much of anything when you fail at a subject that’s incomprehensible to you and that failure is compounded by punishment. I hope parents will consider this as their children approach final exams.

          Some of us are dreamers and dancers and musicians. In this wide world, who would choose to do without the people who give us the pleasures of art and music? Mary Oliver skipped school to sit in the woods and read all day. Albert Einstein was thought to be mentally deficient. Steve Jobs dropped out of college to take calligraphy courses when they had no practical application to his life. Theoretical physics demands that one be able to imagine a world beyond the one they see. Intrapreneurs must be able to keep their fingers on the pulse of their culture and know ahead of time what the next big thing will be. There should be no one-size-fits-all approach to teaching and learning.

          The orderly house of reasons and proofs is necessary for scientists and researchers. The orderly house of color, shape and texture is necessary for artists. The space to daydream and to ponder is necessary for writers, inventors, and anyone else who wants to create something new. This world is a very big place and there is room for everyone. It’s Kermit’s rainbow connection featuring the lovers, the dreamers, and you.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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