Monday, January 31, 2022

The Human Capacity to Care

 

Filled with Gratitude

“As I express my gratitude, I become more deeply aware of it. And the greater my awareness, the greater my need to express it. What happens here is a spiraling ascent, a process of growth in ever expanding circles around a steady center.”

David Steindl-Rast OSB

          These last two weeks of recovery from total knee-replacement surgery have made me hyper-aware of my blessings. From the drive to the hospital with my friend, Isie, to the drive home with my friend, Dejuana, to the long nights when my friend, Rebecca jumped up every time I did to make sure I didn’t fall trying to go to the bathroom, I've had people who love me and were willing to sacrifice time and sleep to care for me. Lots of folks brought food, came for visits to distract me, took me for rides and home for visits, did my grocery shopping, picked up my medicine and sent dozens of messages, texts, emails and even cookies to hasten my recovery. I’ve had so many “How are you—what can I do?” phone calls I’ve lost count. I’ve had a nurse and a physical therapist coming and going and pushing me through the pain to keep going and gaining strength. One of my sons and my daughter-in-law kept my treacherous, bad-tempered Liza for two whole weeks. The other son came and sat with me, and yesterday took me on an “outing” to the grocery store and helped me shop. No one hovered too much, and no one seemed to be bored and tired. They were here for one thing and one thing only—to help me heal. Can you imagine how good that feels? How grateful I am? It’s unspeakably wonderful.

          In the midst of these dark days of pandemic and division and anger and name-calling, this movement of people around a single soul for the purpose of healing is what I hold on to—what comforts me and reassures me that all is not lost and that all is, in fact, well. We humans are both the worst and the best creatures “God the Mother” created. We embody angelic gifts and demonic capacities. We possess the whole gamut of polarities and potentials. We can create heaven on earth, or hell’s furthest territory. It’s all up to us. That must be what the Creator intended. Can’t you hear the Gods discussing it right now? “The Human Experiment: Let’s give them all of our abilities and top it off with free will. Then, we’ll watch to see what they do with it.”

          And the question remains—what will we do with it? For this moment, I am deeply grateful and humbled by the experiences of these last two weeks. Thank you, God, for all the human beings who have cared for me. They are the best of the best on this small blue dot we call home.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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