Saturday, January 15, 2022

Silent Observers/ Best Friends

 

Sacred Pets

“Thought subsides when you pet your dog, or you have a purring cat on your chest. Even watching an animal can take you out of your mind. It is more deeply connected with the source of life than most human beings, and that rootedness of Being transmits itself to you. Millions of people who otherwise would be completely lost in the conceptual reality of their minds are kept sane by living with an animal.”

Eckhart Tolle

          The experience of sending Maggie to her maker is still resounding in me. She wasn’t my dog, but she was the alpha of her pack which included Barley and Gidget, and I have “dog-set” for all of them for years. Maggie did not suffer fools but was never outright aggressive. She gave them a shove with her Corgi-shoulder accompanied by a deep sound of thunder from within, and they got the message. Watching the two underlings stand at attention to observe her passing, was a little like watching those still and silent guards at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. Hound-Barley, who’s not the swiftest pet on the planet, and Gidget, who’s a frisky, perky, jumping bean of a Lhasa apso in real life, silently bore witness and then made comforting their humans their top priority. So, when I read Eckhart Tolle’s quote on Facebook (thanks to Andrea Mathews) I believed that animals are more deeply connected to the source of life than most humans.

          I have had pets my whole life. I can’t imagine not having animal friends around. I talk to Liza-dog like I would talk to you, and she telepaths her answers. When she really needs something, and I’m ignoring her, she literally climbs up my chest and gets eye to eye until I respond. As Martin Buber said, “An animal’s eyes have the power to speak a great language.”

          My friend, David, said goodbye to his cat Pepe this week, too. He says that naps will never be the same again. We may have droves of human friends, and they are wonderful, but our pets never ask us stupid questions, or say that dreaded sentence, “We need to talk.” (Uh-oh!) Our pets may think those things, but they have the patience to just sigh and know that we humans are hopelessly egocentric. They love us anyway. Robert Breault said, “The difference between friends and pets is that we allow friends into our company, pets we allow into our solitude.” So true—especially at nap time.

          “[Pets] are not our whole lives, but they make our lives whole.” (Roger Caras) Those of us who are anxious by nature, know that pets ground us, calm us, and help us sleep. They are better than melatonin, believe me. And, finally, those of you who don’t believe that pets have a soul, well, you simply need help. If you had known Maggie, if you had watched Barley and Gidget observing a respectful moment of silence, you would know better. They understand that souls may leave bodies, but they don’t leave hearts. We carry them always.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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