Wednesday, December 8, 2021

Deck the Halls

 

Christmas Shopping

“The greatest dividends in life are those that we give away.”

Craig D. Lounsbrough

          So, the gift giving season is upon us. I’ve been hobbling around stores for the last few days trying to get this and that, and mostly not finding what I want. (If I’m honest, mostly not knowing what I want.) The other day, I was in the Target that sits on the border of Homewood and Vestavia—I was in sweats, having just come from the gym; my hair was wet from the rain, standing on end, and I had 3 dirty bags of glass bottles in the cart to recycle. All the healthy, young, blond, well-heeled, upwardly mobile, women were there, all bouncing ponytails and stretch tights, pushing Mercedes baby strollers filled with sleeping sweetness. To say I felt like an ancient bag-lady hardly covers the subject. It’s an interesting experiment to conduct, by the way—go to any store in an affluent area looking like that and, 1) no one will offer to help you find something; 2) people avert their eyes so as not to make contact, 3) when you walk into an aisle of merchandise, other people scatter. It’s embarrassing, but kind of fun at the same time.

          Gifts for the 2021 holiday season include everything we didn’t get to give last year plus some. The store, despite the Omicron variant, was packed with shoppers with carts piled high—very few masks. So much for inflation and economic anxiety. People are making up for lost time. We want to give everything we can because who knows what comes next.

          While we’re giving, and spending, and giving, and ordering, and spending, let’s not forget that we are not “everyone.” And that there are people all around us who cannot “shop ‘til they drop.” There are empty shelves in the stores, but also in the soup kitchens. There are fewer toys in the kids’ department, and fewer still in many children’s shelters. In our consumer-culture-celebration-of-Christmas, let’s remember what the season is about—the gift of God for the people of God—and include the ones who do not look like us or live as we do. They are God’s children, too; especially loved by the one whose birthday we will celebrate.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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