Wednesday, June 16, 2021

The Mourning Dove Has the Answers

 

Listen

“Caught in a web of words, I flutter and flounder and weave myself into a fist.

‘Breathe,’ I insist, ‘and pause

Because the peace you seek is not in speech.’

I breathe

And listen.

The wisdom comes in the silken roots of the mourning dove’s call. And on the breeze that brings the soft notes to my ear—here

Right here in this shimmering web-lined nest of morning.”

Isie Hanson (“Listen,” June 14, 2021)

         

          My friend Isie wrote this beautiful poem sitting on her back deck, no doubt with a kitty on her lap. She, like all the rest of us, is attempting to beat back the anxiety that has built over the past two years of pandemic and political strife. Natural ways work best for her—meditation, silence, nature. Her therapy is found in the dirt, digging her way to serenity one flower at a time. I’m fortunate to call her friend since she possesses all the refinement and mid-western sweetness that I lack.

          The wind-down period of the pandemic presents an interesting liminal time during which we realize what a tight fist we’ve been holding for who knows how long and letting go is proving harder than it should. Perhaps now we are holding tight to stave off the inevitable grief and disbelief that has gripped this nation for several years. What happens now—absolutely no one can say, because no one knows. Do we remember what “normal” looks like? Do we want to go back there? I have not yet encountered a single person who answered “yes” to that question. So, if not the old normal, what will be the new normal? It’s like asking the abys and waiting for an answer in an echo.

          Transitional periods are difficult—that was then, this is now, and what do I want going forward. Some of the wind is out of our sails, some of the ego-driven busyness has run out of steam. A collective sigh and the eternal question, “What now?” Like Isie, we will sit in the morning sunrise, and wait for the answers to arrive on the song of a dove.

                                                  In the Spirit,

                                                  Jane

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