Saturday, April 13, 2019

In Spite of the Negatives...


Find Joy

There is nothing better for mortals than to eat and drink, and find enjoyment in their toil. This also, I saw, is from the hand of God...”
Ecclesiastes 2:24

I had the great pleasure of seeing Rob Bell at the Lyric Theater last night. His topic was Joy, and he used as text the book of Ecclesiastes from the Hebrew Bible. We all know the lines from it about time—“to everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” (3:1) What we don't know, or at least I didn't, is all the rest of this book of ancient wisdom attributed to the son of David, King Solomon. Boiled down to its kernel, it says that he, Solomon, pursued wisdom above all else for his entire life. He acquired great wisdom, but found it to be no more lasting than anything else. “There is nothing new under the sun.” There is toil and there is suffering whether you're a good person or a bad one, and, well...everyone dies in the end. Sounds depressing, right? But the advice Solomon gave is this: in view of the fact of toil and suffering, and with the understanding that everything dies and too soon, we must practice joy in the moments that are precious—in food and wine, in friends and loved ones, in our work and in our play. Take joy where we can find it. In fact, he said that to not find pleasure in life, to focus only on the negative, the suffering and the pain, is simply evil.

Rob Bell spoke about finding joy in the small things, for instance, the incredible beauty of this Spring season, the colors, the fragrances. But also, enjoying the absurdities of life—finding them hilariously funny. When people complain about little, insignificant things—like their coffee being cold, or the service in the restaurant being too slow—to greet that with, “Oh, no! It's far worse than that! We're all going to die! All that 'stuff' and money you've been hoarding—somebody else is going to get it, and maybe THEY will know how to enjoy it!” All the meaningless things we allow to control our lives, like status, fashion, how we look, and, my particular favorite, “what other people think of us,” qualify as absurd. Instead of worrying about them—take joy in everything good that is all around us. We, here in the United States, have the good fortune of having clean water and enough to eat (too much, in fact). We have relative safety, and yet we find things to kvetch about. Solomon called that sort of small-minded ingratitude “evil.”

There is terrible injustice in this world, and great sorrow, loss and bone-numbing weariness. No force on earth can prevent natural disasters from striking the good and the bad equally. We all live out our days and die, no matter what. The very best we mortals can do is to bless those experiences as well, stand with those who are going through hard times, and when an opportunity for joy presents itself—grab hold and hang on for as long as we can.

I know that there is nothing better for them to do than to be happy and enjoy themselves for as long as they live; moreover, it is God's gift that all should eat and drink and take pleasure in their toil.” (Ecclesiastes 3:12-13)

Today, I hope you find joy in the people you love, in the small things and absurdities of life, in your work and in your play, and in this beautiful world that surrounds and enlivens you.

                                                                In the Spirit,
                                                                    Jane


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