Sunday, April 7, 2019

Hold on to your sense of...


Wonder

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder
You get your fill but always keep that hunger
May you never take one single breath for granted
God forbid love ever leave you empty handed
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance
And when you have the chance to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance...”
Tia Sillers & Mark Sanders, Songwriters (excerpt from “I Hope You Dance”)

I always wanted to sing this song to my sons. They begged me not to, because I'm a terrible singer, but it says many of the things every parent hopes to impart to a precious child. There is no more important attribute to have to get though life with joy than the sense of wonder. It is soul connected in a way that almost nothing else is. I watched the first episode of One Strange Rock several nights ago, and was blown away by the incredible beauty of planet Earth. We inhabit a living miracle.

In the lecture on Love, Friday night, the presenter, Jungian Analyst Jan Clanton-Collins, spoke about different ways of expressing the joy that comes with having a loving spirit. One of them is dance. I'm not so much talking about Contra, or Latin, or even line dancing, even though all of them are fun. I'm talking about having a conversation between the music, the rhythm of the percussion instruments, and your body. Moving with the beat, allowing your body to interpret and move just as it wants. When you have to learn steps or a set pattern of movements, you have migrated away from the heart and into the head. Just become part of the rhythm and don't worry about getting it right.

If you carry a sense of wonder with you from childhood, when everything was new and surprising, you keep that freshness of discovery. I experience wonder most often in nature—at sights both new and familiar. Sunsets and sunrises are like heady spices to me, and the fragrance and sounds of water running either at the ocean's edge or in the green glade of a mountain stream can mesmerize me for hours. Wonder causes the heart chakra to expand to its fullest, and its energy encompasses our surroundings, including the people with us. It's a feeling of pure joy and, at the same time, of melting away—the boundaries between us and our surroundings dissolve and we merge into that moment in perfect unity.

Of course, life is not always in a state of wonder. If it were, we would not enjoy those precious moments very much. We will have doors shut in our faces from time to time, and no doubt love will leave us empty-handed more than once. But having the capacity for wonder is an antidote for sadness. It's springtime here in the northern hemisphere on this miraculous blue planet. I hope you go outside and dance.

                                                       In the Spirit,
                                                          Jane

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