Tuesday, March 5, 2019

Fat Tuesday


Mardi Gras

To encapsulate the notion of Mardi Gras as nothing more than a big drunk is to take the simple and stupid way out, and I, for one, am getting tired of staying stuck on simple and stupid.”
Chris Rose (1 Dead in Attic: Post-Katrina Stories)

I confess, I have never been to Mardi Gras in New Orleans. I know, unbelievable, right! As a resident of Alabama, I'm required to mention that Mobile actually has the oldest Mardi Gras celebration in the US. I haven't been to it either. I am told that the Big Easy's Mardi Gras parade is a cultural phenomenon on a grand scale, and I enjoy hearing other people's stories about the wild parties, the eccentric costumes, the girls flashing their proud-parts in the French Quarter, extra loud music, hairy men parading in flashy dresses. Yeah...somehow, the more I hear, the less appealing it is.

I do remember as a child being handed a small box on the Sunday before Ash Wednesday. We were supposed to give up something for Lent and put the money we would spend on it into the box. On Easter, we paraded up to the altar rail and put our boxes into a basket as a donation to the church. I always gave up my daily Mallow Cup candy bar, which I believe cost about a dime back in the good old days. Other than that small acknowledgment of the liturgical season, Lent meant nothing to me, though I did get new shoes for Easter—that was pretty special.

I think Mardi Gras is supposed to be more than a big drunken binge, though it has possibly devolved into that. I think it is supposed to be a Dionysian celebration of gratitude for all the goodness life has to offer—the grapes, the fatted calf, the sweet cakes. I think it was meant to be a celebration of lush fertility, of physical love and joy, and unrestrained merriment. All of which were prelude to forty days of sacrifice and fasting leading up to Good Friday. We seem to have accelerated and accentuated the merriment, and lost the fasting and sacrifice, but maybe I'm just stuck on simple and stupid.

Today is Fat Tuesday. Enjoy yourself. Celebrate all that life has provided. Dance and strut your stuff to some of Professor Longhair and Neville Brothers' music. Have a good old fashioned feast and, by all means, frolic. Make mad love to someone special. Then tomorrow, remember that the second part is forty days of soul work. Forty days of truly paying attention to what your soul wants and needs, and where it's leading you. That's what Lent is all about—it is a soul journey. How would your life be different if your soul was in the driver's seat?

                                                  In the Spirit,
                                                     Jane



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