Monday, February 25, 2019

Sleeping Instructions


Dream Pictures

The basic idea behind Jungian dream theory is that dreams reveal more than they conceal.”
Ryan Hurd (“Dream Theories of Carl Jung,” Dream Studies Portal)

All of us dream when we sleep. Some of us remember our dreams and some do not. And, some of us write down our dreams and ponder them for their relationship to our waking lives. I fall into the latter category. For more than forty years, I have studied my dreams, and loved being in analysis with Jungian Analyst, Nancy Qualls-Corbett for many years. Dreams are, for me, and were for Jung, a symbolic language with depth and meaning. I have learned a great deal about myself and my relationship to the world through my dreams.

For instance, I dreamed last night that I had returned to my home town to visit my cousins. The cousin I was staying with was part of a country dance group that met weekly, and she invited me to go with her to their meeting. When we arrived, the young woman who led the group was not happy to see me; a visitor inserting herself into their group. She insisted that if I were going to be there, I had to dance. Since I didn't know country dance, I asked to just watch them dance, and when I felt comfortable, I would join in. The young woman balked. She offered to give me lessons then and there, but I was too self-conscious for that. I didn't want to be singled out for lessons and look awkward before the others. Finally, she said that I could not be in the room if I were not willing to dance. I left the room feeling embarrassed, and my cousin was incensed that her guest wasn't allowed to stay in the room.

Since all characters in a dream belong to the dreamer, I could see just how rigid my “young instructor” is when someone does not do things according to protocol—my protocol. I learned that I am terribly self-conscious in new settings, and often cut off opportunities to be spontaneous because I feel awkward. And I learned, that being told what to do by someone younger, and especially, someone who is autocratic, embarrasses me and makes me angry. In other words, the dream landscape showed me a revealing picture of my inner self—not one that surprised me, but one that reminded me that I carry with me even now some of the traits that were learned “in my hometown.” No one likes to feel awkward, but some people are willing to look foolish in order to have fun. I think the dream pointed out quite clearly that I am not one of those, and perhaps I should “lighten up.”

I find dreams to be instructive. I don't always remember my dreams, but when I do, especially when they are as intact and clear as this one, I listen. If you are open to receiving dream information, you could keep a diary to write them down as soon as you wake. You don't have to put in long hours of study; just hold the dream, ponder it. It will give you information that may not be obvious to your waking self. Remember that in the Bible, dreams were often God's way of communicating with God's children about what to do next. According to mystic, Edgar Cayce, “Dreams are today's answers to tomorrows questions.” It's always smart to listen when God whispers in your ear.

                                                         In the Spirit,
                                                            Jane

No comments: