Thursday, November 29, 2018

Anticipation


Dark December

I heard a bird sing in the dark of December
A magical thing. And sweet to remember.
We are nearer to Spring than we were in September.
I heard a bird sing in the dark of December.”
Oliver Herford

The Thanksgiving plates have barely been cleared away, and here we are, heading into December with its bouquet of holidays. This time of year one can feel the tension rise—see it in the traffic, at the malls, in the grocery stores. People feel equal parts anticipation and anxiety with gifts to buy, food to cook, parties and numerous religious services to attend, menorah candles to light for the seven days of Hanukkah and seven unity candles for Kwanzaa. And, of course, there will be Winter Solstice mid-month, and New Year's Eve at the end. It's a busy, busy month.

I feel like someone who climbs a tall tree so I can look past all the madness and see the Spring that waits beyond. Winter is not my season. December is not my month. Every year, I try to create little rituals to help me enjoy the season, appreciate the cold, honor the darkness, and celebrate the birth of Jesus-the-Light. In other words, I try to make it about the time of year, the grace of God, and not about shopping. I'm mostly unsuccessful. The collective energy is so strong that it pulls me in like a vortex. I feel the anxiety and anticipation just like everyone else.

As the days shorten this month, as the snow piles up in parts of the world, as the tension rises, the traffic snarls, and tempers roil, remember this—it's temporary. Here are some things to observe that make the season a delight: the light increases each day beginning on the 22nd, camellias and paper-white narcissus bloom, holly berries turn bright red, and best of all, Spring gets closer each day. We can do this! We can make it through the month of darkness because we know a bright light is coming. Wait and watch for it. Count the minutes and days. That's the true meaning of Advent—the season of waiting with anticipation. That's what I'm doing. I'm waiting for the light. How about you?

                                                               In the Spirit,
                                                                  Jane

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