Friday, February 23, 2018

The Product of Experience


Wisdom

Wisdom...is not automatic with age, rather it is pursuit intertwined with maturity. It is also a treasure and a gift, a quality of our spiritual lives...If wisdom doesn't take shape and form in the world, it might not be worth much.”
Diana Butler Bass (“Activism and Wisdom;” The Cottage: Notes on Life and Writing, February 21, 2018)

We think of activism as protest; as marching in the streets, and shouting slogans. But activism can take many forms. I have a friend who calls her representatives every morning to comment on whatever is going on in the world. I have friends who work on campaigns for people who represent their own ideals and values. Some of us write, or speak, or teach. One thing is certain—age is no excuse for being inactive when it comes to standing for justice, mercy and peace. We don't always agree on the best approach to achieving those outcomes, but we must keep working toward them.

Wisdom is not the prerogative of the aged. In fact, I know quite a few old people who do not exhibit wisdom. The young people of Parkland, on the other hand, do. They have experienced a terrible life event—one that will be with them for as long as they live—and out of that has come the wisdom of maturity. I remember noticing as a child that in my peer group were people who already seemed wise—more mature than the rest of us. They tended to be children who were forced to cope with difficult circumstances, difficult families. They aged prematurely; and with that came a seriousness and wisdom about life. Unfortunately, the teens at Parkland now belong to that fraternity. When they should be planning their prom outfits, they will watch as the building in which the shootings took place is demolished. They will forever bear the scars of the events of February 14th. They have chosen well to turn their pain into activism.

Wisdom can come at any age, or not at all. It is the result of seeking answers to big questions. It requires self-reflection and brazen self-evaluation. It takes tremendous courage to speak wisely at a young age. Being discounted as “too young to know what you're talking about” is common. Fortunately, young people are in the business of building ego-strength, so they forge ahead, buoyed by their peers and their sense of rightness. They possess the clear-eyed certainty of just how wrong it was to see their innocent friends and teachers shot dead. They are right, and they are righteous, and they are brave. And, now, they are wise. We should listen closely to them.

                                                                 In the Spirit,
                                                                    Jane

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