Compassion
“Compassion
constitutes a radical form of criticism, for it announces that the
hurt is to be taken seriously, that the hurt is not to be accepted as
normal and natural but is an abnormal and unacceptable condition for
humanness.”
Walter
Brueggeman (The Prophetic Imagination)
Compassion is a mammalian
emotion. If you own a dog or cat, you know that when one of them is
hurt, or sick, or young and mewling, the others go to see what they
can do to comfort. I had a dog named Whiskers who allowed two kittens
to cuddle up against his belly to sleep, just as though he were their
mother. We've all watched the sweet videos of Koko, the gorilla, and
the kitten she loved, and named “All Ball.” Mammals are capable
of love, care, and compassion for other creatures, no matter what
species they may be.
We also care when we
witness injustice to others. The children of Syria comes to mind; and
watching the horror of their being caught up in a war they neither
understand nor can escape. We have deep remorse and compassion for
cultures that have been decimated by colonialism, like our own Native
American tribes. We carry enduring guilt for what our forebears did
to black and brown people, and for our own unacknowledged bias and
ignorance. Sometimes, compassion weighs us down, and we have to shut
down for a while. I'm not excusing any of these things, since it is
the very weight of our compassion that convicts us. We know the hurt
is not going away, and that we must take it seriously.
One of the reasons for
the deep compassion fatigue gripping the world right now is that no
one seems to have answers. Many groups are making attempts to right
the wrongs of society, but some of those wrongs require that we all work together. That seems to be the highest hurdle for us as a
species. Until we can agree to come together to solve the problems
that exist, they will continue to haunt us and drag us down. Finding
ways to heal the hurt will take all of us working together, and the
first step in that process is admitting that inflicting harm is not
the normal state of events, but is unacceptable in all human
interactions. From bullying on the playground, to name calling in our
halls of power and on our streets, we must reinstate compassion as
the normal and expected means of communication.
In the Spirit,
Jane
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