Solitude
“Solitude
is the furnace of transformation. Without solitude, we remain victims
of our society and continue to be entangled in the illusions of the
false self...Solitude is the place of the great struggle and the
great encounter...”
Henri
Nouwen (The Way of the Heart, p.13)
When was the
last time you intentionally spent time in solitude? It is the place
where we make the big decisions that guide our lives, yet we so
seldom claim time alone with ourselves. Only in solitude are we
likely to acknowledge our deepest loves and our darkest demons. Only
in the quiet of our own hearts do we admit to being powerless over
all circumstances outside ourselves. When we are caught up in the
roar of social pressures and cultural expectations, we cannot
separate ourselves out from the noise all around us. Even Jesus spent
forty days in the solitude of the desert to gain an understanding of
his future path.
I have been watching the
summer Olympic games on television. I'm struck by the way the
athletes come out of the locker rooms covered from head to toe,
wearing headphones, and keeping an interior gaze. They are
attempting, against all odds, to avoid being caught up in the wild
energy of the crowd, the torrent of expectations, the grandiosity of
the stage upon which they compete. They are trying to stay with
themselves, with their own thoughts, with the words that keep them
calm and reassure them that even in the midst of all this, they still
belong to themselves. They claim their solitude in the only way they
can.
Today, claim some
solitude for yourself. Take time alone to check in with your own
heart and soul. How are things going there? What do they need to stay
healthy?
In the Spirit,
Jane
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