Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Season of...

Harmony

As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler; solitude will not be solitude, poverty will not be poverty, nor weakness weakness.”
Henry David Thoreau

Each year, the Christmas season seems less frenetic to me. Perhaps that is because I've opted out, but maybe the whole idea of simplicity is truly beginning to set in. When I was a child (long, long ago, in a universe far, far away) Christmas meant we put up a tree, got candy and fruit in our stockings and one “big” gift along with a few articles of needed clothing. I don't remember that being insufficient—I don't remember feeling stinted by it. Maybe that sort of Christmas is what feels native to me.

When my children were young, our Christmas tree would be piled with presents up to and beyond the lower branches, stacked up and spilling out into the room. It was excessive and unnecessary, and I question now what on earth we were thinking. It seems we were simply going along with the times. I know a young couple today, who have four children under the age of 10. At Christmas, they allow the kids to open all their presents, and once opened, to choose two or three of their favorites to play with. Then all the rest go into the attic to be doled out over the course of the year. That seems a far smarter option to me.

When we simplify our lives we learn just how little we actually need, and how anything in excess sooner or later becomes a problem. We are able to live just as well, in fact better, with less. We do not feel impoverished or deprived; we feel content. I know many people who are clearing out their closets, basements and attics, and hauling boatloads of “stuff” to thrift stores for someone else to enjoy. Finding the balance of having what is necessary and giving away the rest seems like a true gift to me. Marcus Aurelius said, “He who lives in harmony with himself lives in harmony with the universe.” Let this be the season of harmony.

                                                           In the Spirit,

                                                               Jane

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