Friday, December 18, 2015

Life in a...

Flat World

I've had clear, decisive people come to me who, after meditating for some time, found themselves becoming less and less certain. Close examination revealed that their previous decisiveness came from being locked into rigid models of reality. As these models crumbled and they began to see the relative nature of the world they once thought they knew, it became more difficult to make decisions.”
Ram Dass (Journey of Awakening)

There was a time in my life when my world was flat. Like the people of Columbus's day, I believed I could go only so far in any direction before I fell off the edge into who-knows-what. Anytime someone presented an idea to me that did not fit my flat-earth ideology, I dismissed it out of hand. They were simply wrong. They were deluded. Certainty requires rigidity. Setting my foot on a spiritual path messed up my certainty principle. I began to see, as Einstein did, that all things are relative, and, as Heisenberg postulated, in all things there is a degree of uncertainty. Nothing in this world is one dimensional.

Now, if you don't want your certainty screwed with, you should never put your foot on the path of Spirit. Spirit will show you that every story has at least two sides and usually many more; that there are often no clear divisions between right and wrong; and that the good guys have some truly bad traits and the bad guys are sometimes good. If you fight her, Spirit will clearly demonstrate that you, yourself, are a churned-up mess of good and bad, right and wrong. She'll turn your concrete world upside down and leave you with a little pile of rubble. I know this from experience.

We humans want certainty. We want to believe things are one-way, and that is our way. We want to impose on others the correct way, which, of course, is our way. And when others tenaciously cling to their own way, we feel angry and upset. It would be good for all of us to take a deep breath, maybe even several deep breaths, and let go of our vice-grip on certainty. Other people have a right to be their way, to think their thoughts, to live their lives in the way they choose. The fact that it is very different from our life does not make it wrong, or even misguided. In fact, in the best of all worlds, we would encourage others to live as they see fit, we would embrace their difference, and even celebrate the diversity of life that exists on this planet.

Watch out for Spirit. She's always present. She will grab hold of your eyelids and pry them open so you have to see what is right in front of your face—the world is a beautiful, passionate place, and a hot-mess all at the same time.

                                                          In the Spirit,

                                                              Jane 

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