Saturday, May 9, 2015

Non-Verbal Communication

Hands

Behold the hands, how they promise, conjure, appeal, menace, pray, supplicate, refuse, beckon, interrogate, admire, confess, cringe, instruct, command, mock...with a variation and multiplication of variation that makes the tongue envious.”
Michel de Montaigne

Hands tell a great deal about a person. Just a glimpse can tell you whether they are purely ornamental, or are the person's most useful appendage. Hands speak more authentically than words. They tremble when we're afraid, clinch when we're angry, flail when we're distressed, touch our head when we're thinking, smack it when we realize we've done something stupid. Most of us are so keyed into verbal communication that we ignore our hands entirely. That's a mistake.

Hands are directly inherited—I can look at mine and see my father's identical ones in my mind. Their shape and texture, the rolls on the knuckles, the squareness of the tips; these are his hands. They are calloused and cracked, because, like him, I use them everyday. Whose hands do you have?

Our hands are the most potent part of the body for a multitude of reasons having nothing to do with strength or beauty. For one thing, they have more nerve endings per square inch than any part of the body. Their touch informs us because, not only do they act out our thoughts and emotions, they are also astute receivers of information. They radiate energy that can expedite the repair of broken bones and broken hearts, and soothe and calm a sick child.

How we use our hands is just as important as how we use our mind, or our voice. They can be used for good or ill. They can heal, or kill, or steal. They are our most honest communicator. How will you use your hands today?

                                                     In the Spirit,

                                                         Jane

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