Monday, July 21, 2014

Make the Moments Count

Details, Mere Details

The true secret of happiness lies in taking a genuine interest in all the details of daily life.” William Morris

My house has reached the tipping point. In every area there is a pile of something that needs tending to. My porch has really not been kept up this summer, my basement is stack after stack of eBay this and that, even my bedroom has stacks of quilts and blankets in need of a “putting place.” It's time to begin the monumental task of clearing out.

Taking care of the annoying details of every day life is difficult for most of us. If you're wealthy, you can hire someone to do the necessary parts of existence that you don't like doing. But if you are not wealthy, you must begin to address the situation one step at a time. I have finally learned that when I try to come up with a strategy that addresses the entirety of the problem, I am overwhelmed and paralyzed. But if I break it down into small steps, I am usually successful in accomplishing the task in a fairly short time.

The closest I come to finding happiness in the details is the feeling of satisfaction I have when the job is done. I can look at the bookshelf, for instance, with all the books in order and alphabetized, and get a little thrill at seeing exactly what I'm looking for rather than searching endlessly for something I know is there, but can't find. The end result is worth all the unpleasant work of getting there.

Our lives consist of the collection of our moments. When we're paying attention to the details of each moment, we finish our day at least knowing that we've lived it. Finding the details interesting, whether or not they are fun, leads, on the whole, to a pretty satisfying life.

                                                          In the Spirit,
                                                                Jane



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