Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Pushing the River

Ruling the World

The world is ruled by letting things take their course.” Lao Tzu

If you've ever been part of a group, such as a Board of Directors, you know how difficult it is to follow this simple rule of Taoism. This motion without movement, this doing without doing, to most Western minds makes no sense at all. Coming from that irrepressible bunch known as 'the pioneers', we Americans are all about going out there to force our will, not only on the landscape, but also on any other human beings who get in our way. We're still butting into one another, lo these many years later, trying to impose our world view upon anyone who dares to differ. It's nearly impossible for us to simply allow things to take their course.

I am lately part of a co-sponsoring group who will bring Thomas Moore to Birmingham for two days in May. The two groups have never before worked together; both are well established in this area, and accustomed to having free reign to organize seminars as they please. Both Boards are composed of good and reasonable people, even sophisticated and intelligent people. But let me tell you, even decisions such as how many coffee pots we will need, and where the speaker will stand, have resulted in skirmishes as cold and deadly as Custer's Last Stand. We've debated over space, over arrangements, over advertising, over scheduling, over where the speaker will and will not stay, and on and on and on. We have managed to get two or more people to agree on things, but only by Congressional mandate! It's something, y'all.

Humans...we have an inborn need to make things happen according to our decree. It's undeniable; it's a drive as strong as hunger and lust. We are disinclined to allow the river to flow according to its own nature; we must push it, and bend it to our will. In doing so, we make life harder for ourselves and the people around us. And, as soon as we stop pushing, the river returns to its native state as though we had never existed. Just for today, let's stop trying to steer the stars, and allow them to chart their own course. Tomorrow, we will put on our coon-skin caps and load up the wagons again. Lots of territory out there needs taming!

                                          In the Spirit,
                                             Jane




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