Friday, April 18, 2014

Loving Our Dragons

Beauty and Courage

Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love.”
Rainer Maria Rilke

Have you ever dealt with a really difficult person? Someone who, just by walking into the room, can make the hackles on your neck stand at attention; who can convert you from a sane, competent person into a spitting maniac in seven seconds flat? I may have had this experience once or twice myself. I am a person whose fuse is slow to burn, but once it ignites, better step back. Therefore, I am deeply familiar with how truly difficult it is to live in love; how nearly inhuman it is to react to provocation with “beauty and courage.”

Today is Good Friday. On this day, two thousand years ago, Jesus of Nazareth gave a clinic on how to respond with beauty and courage. From beginning to end, through betrayal and defection of his beloved brothers, to lashing and beating and spitting and crucifixion, he maintained himself without returning hate for hate. Instead, he responded with love even to those who nailed him to a cross. He healed a sword torn ear, he gave care of his mother to his best friend, he promised a traitor paradise, and he forgave his executioners. His life and his death were exemplary in every way.

Just for today, let us remember his example and refuse to respond in anger; to criticize or degrade anyone for any reason. Let us treat our dragons with kindness and refuse to allow fear to rule our lives.

                                       In the Spirit,

                                             Jane

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