Thursday, May 16, 2013

The Phone's Ringing!


Simplify, Simplify, Simplify!

Don't answer the phone just because it's ringing.”
                               Elaine St. James (Simplify Your Life)

I may be the only dinosaur left who still has a land-line telephone. Everyday, I ask myself why. Some of us are conditioned to answer a ringing telephone no matter how inconvenient it may be. I am one of those. I think my tendency to answer at all cost came from my childhood when the telephone, hooked to the kitchen wall, was the main point of contact with the outside world. In those days, the in-coming call might be my best friend calling to gossip, or a relative announcing the death of someone in the family. It could be Louise Taylor, my personal banker, calling to say, “Honey, a check just came in with insufficient funds to cover; would you like to come down here and take care of it?” (Remember those days?) The telephone was a critical lifeline.

Now, however, it's not critical at all. In fact, hardly anyone calls my land-line except for tele-marketers selling burial plots, medicare plans or equipment for diabetics. I guess they just assume everyone in Alabama has diabetes. Of course, if I got rid of my land-line, those all-important political robo-calls would be missed, along with the slim chance of Publisher's Clearing House calling to tell me I've won a billion dollars. Otherwise, I think I could live without it. I have made progress on this front; when I see a name or location I don't know on the caller ID, I pick it up and put it down again without answering. That way my answering machine doesn't make that annoying beep. And, I curse a lot when the phone interrupts whatever I'm doing, even while I'm rushing to see who's calling. It's a sickness, y'all. There should be a 12-Step group for it. But, you, you're stronger than I am, and smarter, too.

If you are trying to simplify your life to make it more manageable, you might want to start with disconnecting the land-line (especially if it's connected to Ma-Bell, the money sump). It is an unnecessary inconvenience in our cyber-connected world. It cuts through our serenity and wastes our time and money. At the very least, unplug it after 8 at night—that's when the cemetery ghouls start calling to remind you that you might go at any moment, leaving your poor, struggling children to foot the bill! Geezzz!

                                         In the spirit,
                                            Jane

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