Wednesday, May 29, 2013

The Gift of Uneasiness

Mining for Gold

How many times do we lose an occasion for soul work by leaping ahead to final solutions without pausing to savor the undertones? We are radically a bottom-line society, eager to act and to end tension, and thus we lose opportunities to know ourselves for our motives and our secrets.”
                                 Thomas Moore (Care of the Soul)

Yesterday, I wrote about the subtle languages of soul. One of those is unease. I don't know about you, but I hate to feel uneasy; to feel as though something's wrong, but I don't know what it is. Or to feel something's going to happen but I don't know when or why or even how I know. Do you have those times? Do you ever go through periods, sometimes days or even weeks, when a ghost hovers in your head, distracting you, disorienting you, but when you look to see whose ghost it is, it isn't there? Sounds crazy, doesn't it? It's a fleeting apparition, a dream whose effects you feel, but whose images are now gone and you can't pull them back. That's what I'm talking about—that's soul leading you to analyze and discover. It's maddening; no wonder we try to end that tension.

But, soul work requires that we stay with our feelings, even the truly uncomfortable ones until we know what gems they hold. Think of them as dragons under the mountain, sitting on their hoard of gold and diamonds, daring you to come and steal some. Stealth is required. Stealth and magic, and a good fire hose. I wonder whether you have certain behaviors that help you to cope during periods of unease. I am usually driven to move furniture, or, as I did recently, to move books and rearrange them. Sometimes I clean out all the hobbit holes in my house that accumulate 'stuff.' I am drawn to spend time in my basement, actually and metaphorically. Somehow in the process of cleaning and rearranging, things come together. Clarity creeps in and suddenly, I know what the trouble is and how to address it.

Subtle feelings are the most uniquely human brain functions; we have them for a reason. Yes, they are 'irrational' much of the time, but that doesn't mean we should ignore them, or gloss over them, or bury them. We should pay attention to them and allow them to teach us about ourselves. They hold secrets that our smart brains miss.

                                                In the spirit,

                                                   Jane

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